93 ~The Letter

By Kay Heitsch

This is a letter I wrote to "Mom" and "Dad" before the trial started.

Dear XXX, XXX

The past few months have been very hard for all of us. I can not even imagine how difficult it has been for each of you.

I've heard both of your sad stories, and they break my heart. I want you to know that I have NOT taken a side. It might be better said that I am on both of your sides. I believe that I am not called to judge, but to love you unconditionally.

In the past, you have asked me to write different things for each of you. As you have noticed lately, I have been sending you each whatever I write. I will continue to do this, so there will be no doubt that I am not favoring one of you over the other. If you receive something that you did not ask for, you will know that the other person did.

I have told each of you the things I am going to say again. Do not let this anger and unforgiveness eat away at you. It is POISON and will ruin your life. Forgiving does not mean that you condone the actions

.

Also, for the sake of darling little xxx be respectful

to each other in front of her. She loves you both!! You know that I believe xxx deserves a close relationship with each of you.

I know that it is possible that the love you have for xxx overrides

whatever feelings you have for each other. Put the love you have for xxx first when dealing with each other.

Who would have believed that the day I walked across the street to see a precious little baby would bring us to this today?

I have grown to love all three of you very much. It's not easy being in the middle, and I hope you never find yourself in this spot.

However, I know that when I look back on this point in my life's journey, I will see that it has made me a stronger person. Also, I know that I will have grown in my personal relationship with God and will have learned to allow GOD to love through me.

Lovingly, Kay