117 ~ I Learned To Say No

By Kay Heitsch

After saying to the Lord that I wanted to be used by Him, I found myself saying 'yes' more times than I should have. Well, maybe saying 'yes' when I should have said 'no' was also part of God's plan, as it taught me valuable lessons.

That all being said, after "L" had died, I was asked to help other people who had mental health issues. I knew staying with "L" was a job God had for me. I fulfilled my commitment to the family, even though it was much longer than I expected. I had overcome my fear, but I also knew it was time for me to move on. I firmly declined the requests.

I had been asked to do a job at a church that sounded like a great opportunity and was undoubtedly something I could do. However, I found myself telling the person asking me that I would go home and pray about it. Perhaps this job was not meant for me, but it was meant for someone else. Sometimes we think that if we don't do it, no one else will. The position was filled, and it wasn't by me.

Working God's plans for our lives can be tricky at times. Many times, we miss opportunities if we don't step out; that's true. I've often said to myself. Step out and find out.

But there are times people will take advantage of our willingness to help. We need to know when we are helping or when we are being taken advantage of, too. There is a big difference. Saying no can be the best thing for the other party and yourself.

I took a much-needed break after "L" died, but shortly after, I was asked to help a few more people, which I said yes to.

Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2