Let the SON Shine!

"Let the Son Shine!" is a Blog where I share true personal stories of God's involvement in everyday life.

Sunday, December 21, 2025

199 ~ Christmas Traditions

By Kay Heitsch

As I think back on our Christmas traditions, I see that some have remained the same, but many things have changed.
I still make more or less the same treats. I ask what the kids want, and that's what I make.
When Noah and Eli were little, we would go to Columbus and watch Eli in the Christmas Eve program. At first, he was a farm animal, in the program, then graduated to being a wise man.
After the Christmas program, we always went to Bob Evens to eat.
I'll never forget when the waitress asked Eli for his order. Without missing a beat, Eli told the waitress he would be having his usual. The waitress smiled and replied, "Oh, that would be the Little Piggy Pancakes?" Eli nodded, yes. We all laughed and still talk about it.
Traditions are nice, but I don't think Eli wants to order Little Piggy Pancakes anymore.
I'm not sure if we are going to wear our Christmas crazy sweaters like we did last year. Maybe that was a one-hit wonder.
Some traditions change, some remain the same, and some are added. I like it this way.
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Saturday, December 20, 2025

198 ~ A Secret Until Now

By Kay Heitsch

In the 1960s, I lived with Aunt Carmeleta and Uncle Fred for one year. They lived in Grand Rapids, Michigan, at the time.
If you don't know anything about Grand Rapids, I will tell you the city is in what is called the snow belt. Grand Rapids gets a lot of snow in the winter.
My cousin, Pat, and I walked to school, rain, shine, sleet, or snow. The school was several blocks away, but we didn't seem to mind the walk.
One day, on our walk to school, it had snowed. But on top of the snow there was a sheet of ice. We literally were walking on top of the icy snow.
The snowplows had come along and piled drifts on the corners of the streets. That being said, we had to walk on top of these icy drifts to cross the roads.
We were doing well navigating the drifts until Pat fell, I started to laugh, and then I fell. I don't know why it was so funny, but the two of us were laughing so hard we couldn't stop. Well, we did stop when we both wet our pants. Can you even imagine?
Now we had to turn around and go back home, change our clothes, and try to make our way to school again. I'm sure we were late. I don't remember what our excuse was; it was our secret until now.
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Friday, December 19, 2025

197 ~ Christmas Surprise

By Kay Heitsch

I was never taught to believe in Santa. I don't know why, except maybe because of my parents' childhoods.
At Christmas time, as soon as the Christmas tree was up, any gifts were put under the tree. I don't remember receiving any gifts from anyone except my parents.
One year, there were hardly any gifts under the tree. Mom explained that it had been a challenging year financially, so that was the reason why.
I don't remember feeling too bad about it. I enjoyed what we did, aside from any gifts, anyway. I did miss shaking the gifts, trying to figure out what was in them.
We usually opened any gifts that were under the tree on Christmas Eve. So I did open a pair of pajamas, which was one gift I always got. Mom and Dad were into practical gifts.
On Christmas Day, Mom told me to go across the street to the gas station because one of the guys there had something for me.
I ran over to the station, and there waiting for me was a set of skis, boots, and poles. Living in Michigan, we had a ski resort nearby, so during the Christmas break, I learned to ski.
This was a surprise Christmas for sure! I got a lot of use out of those skis, too. Another practical gift from Mom and Dad.
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Thursday, December 18, 2025

196 ~ Handling Christmas After Loss

By Kay Heitsch

Christmas can be a tough time for someone who has experienced a profound personal loss. Every situation is different.
My emotions after my folks died have been totally different than thinking about Todd at Christmas time.
The first Christmas after Todd died, I had Shannon and Brandon to think about. I wanted them to enjoy the holiday and have good memories. I went through the everyday Christmas things. But it was hard!
I remember I wrote "Lovingly, Bill, Kay, Shannon, Brandon, and in loving memory of Todd" on the Christmas cards. I had to include Todd. It was so weird not to start with his name, naming the children. I stopped doing that after the first year. But it seemed to help me deal with the pain in my heart that first year.
I made things that Todd and everyone enjoys. I still do to this day. The treats are a tradition. I ask, and everyone puts in their request.
I'm sure I'm not alone. Christmas brings back memories and emotions at various times during the season. I miss Todd, and being around family seems to intensify my feelings. I do my best, with God's help, to hold it together.
With God's help, we can get through anything knowing He will bring good out of it. I like to keep that thought.
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

195 ~ The Snowsuit

By Kay Heitsch

"Can you tell me if anyone in our store does community service?" Bill asked. A person spoke up and said," I know that Rose does. She helps the homeless at her church."
My husband Bill had recently been transferred to this store as the Store Manager. Bill liked to recognize employees who worked in community service. He met with Rose and learned about the outreach program in her inner-city church. Bill told Rose that he thought that I would enjoy helping her.
When Bill came home that night after the two-hour commute, he told me about his conversation with Rose. I was excited about the idea of helping in such a program. I started spreading the word that Bill had an employee helping the homeless from her church. I asked if anyone wanted to help by donating usable items. The response was terrific.
Word spread like wildfire. Churches were calling, offering clothing and food. Once a week, I stopped by a church in a nearby town. Each week, I loaded the back of our van with items that people in their congregation dropped off.
An older couple from our congregation gave us a check and told us to use the money to buy Bibles and inspirational materials to take to the mission.
On several occasions, I came home and found bags of clothing sitting in front of our garage. Every day when Bill drove to work, his car was loaded with help for people experiencing homelessness, given by total strangers.
I took this opportunity to clean out the closets in our home, too. Bill had an overcoat he seldom wore. I put the overcoat in, along with clothes our children had outgrown and several of my own.
Occasionally, Rose would stop in Bill's office and tell him stories about the mission. One day, she talked about an overcoat that her minister had taken from our donated clothes. As Rose described the overcoat, Bill knew it was his. He was glad to have been able to provide this young minister with a warm coat.
One cold day, I walked by our downstairs closet. I noticed a snowmobile suit that had been our oldest son, Todd's. The thought of putting this snowsuit in for the mission immediately came to my mind. I dismissed the idea as I saved this snowsuit for Brandon, our youngest son.
Todd had died in a car accident a few years before, and for some reason, I had held this snowmobile suit for Brandon. This was one of the very few things I had kept of Todd's.
I couldn't believe the LORD would want me to give up this "special" snowsuit I had saved all these years. The thought came again, "Put the snowmobile suit in." I walked over and took it off the hanger. I looked at the tag inside. It was a man's size small. When Todd died, he was six feet tall.
How long had I been keeping this? Brandon wasn't quite three years old when Todd died. Even now, he wasn't big enough for this suit.
I decided it was time to part with this "special" snowmobile suit I'd been saving. I took it off the hanger and laid it lovingly on top of a bag of other clothes for the mission.
Bill's old store was closing. Almost everything in the store was gone. Now, they were getting rid of the racks. We knew the mission could use the shelves to hang clothes.
We rented a Ryder truck and loaded several racks in. We stopped by another church to pick up clothes before heading to the mission two hours north. Since we'd rented this truck, I decided to ride along. Usually, Bill took everything to his store. Then Rose's husband would come in and pick up the things.
We drove the truck to the store that day and met Rose's husband there. He jumped in the truck to give us directions to the church where the mission was.
It was a cold day in Cleveland. The wind was blowing, and the snow was beginning to fall as we drove into the area where the mission was. Looking around, I saw that this neighborhood differed from the one I knew. As we pulled up in front of the church, I noticed all the windows had bars. The front door had a huge chain going through the handles.
We stopped the truck in front of the church and opened the door. As we left the Ryder truck, a small black man with a big, toothless smile greeted us. He ran over to the truck and offered to help. I looked at this man and at Bill. I couldn't believe my eyes. This little man had Todd's snowmobile suit on! Tears filled my eyes.
Rose walked into Bill's office the next day and asked, "Did you see the man in the snowsuit at the mission?" When Bill said he had, Rose continued, "You know, Bill, there's a story behind that snowsuit."
Rose went on to tell Bill how this little homeless man was always around to help. Rose said that the day this snowsuit came in, he had picked up the bag, and the snowsuit fell at his feet. He picked it up and asked if he could try it on.
Rose told Bill that she thought it was "rather foolish" that a grown man would want a one-piece snowsuit like this, but she told him to go ahead and try it on. When he tried it on, it fit perfectly! He told Rose that he had wanted a snowsuit like this all his life, and now he finally had one.
When Bill came home and told me this story, the LORD spoke to my heart and said, "Kay, you were wondering why you were saving that snowmobile suit all these years; now you know!" All these years, I'd thought I was saving this special snowmobile suit for our son, Brandon.
But now I knew I was saving it for a special child of God who had always wanted one.
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Tuesday, December 16, 2025

194 ~ Ice Skating Walk

By Kay Heitsch

Growing up in the northern part of Michigan during the winter, you will find cold weather and plenty of snow.
I didn't really care because I enjoyed playing in the snow, and I especially liked to ice skate. The city skating rink was at the other end of town from our home.
I had a friend named Star, whose dad flooded their backyard and built an ice rink for her. Of course, I wanted my dad to water our front yard, but he never did.
To skate, I sometimes went to Star's house, but I usually went to the skating rink at the other end of town.
Mom would drive me down to the rink, and after so long, she would come back and pick me up.
One day, I was having fun skating. Several people I knew were there; however, one by one, they left.
There was a little shed you could go into to get out of the wind and cold, which was nice. I sat in there for a short while, then had the bright idea to walk home.
I will never forget that walk on those ice skates. There were no cell phones back in those days, so I couldn't call my mom.
My poor ankles were killing me by the time I walked up to our front door. The look on my mom's face! I was crying, of course.
Mom asked why I didn't wait for her to come and get me. I didn't know. When everyone left, I didn't want to be alone there, I presume.
Walking on ice skates, even if it was only half a mile on sidewalks, seemed like a long, long walk. I never tried it again.
I remember Mom helped me take off my skates, and we both had a cup of hot chocolate. Boy, I needed it!
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Monday, December 15, 2025

193 ~ Christmas Memories

By Kay Heitsch

I was a little girl in the 1950s.
At Christmas time, my Mom and I would drive to the city to look at the beautifully decorated store windows. I loved the animated figurines and all the Christmas decor.
One big department store had a train that circled the ceiling. When Mom wanted to shop, she put me on that train.
It was always cold and snowy, but somehow it didn't matter. When the window washer fluid would freeze up in the car, Mom would pull over, and I would throw snow on the window to clear it off.
Mom had a friend, Hazel, who came to our small town in the winter and worked at the hospital. She rented a room at a house several blocks from our home.
Mom and I often walked over to visit Hazel. On our walk, I remember seeing the tinsel Christmas trees in the windows with the colored wheels. I thought those were pretty cool.
Maybe a few of you can remember these same types of special memories.
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Friday, December 12, 2025

192 ~ Finally Able To Enjoy Christmas

By Kay Heitsch

Christmas can be a challenging time for many people. They may be remembering an unpleasant childhood, they may be experiencing the loss of someone, they may be alone, the list goes on and on.
My Dad had a tough childhood. His mom died at age 5, and his Dad went into a deep depression. By the age of 9, my Dad was smoking and drinking, and he started to work on the railroad. Needless to say, his Christmastime was anything but pleasant. All these experiences made my Dad a rough-and-tough man.
When Christmas rolled around each year, these unpleasant memories seemed to take over my Dad's thinking. He was now a very heavy drinker. As I saw it, the way he dealt with life many times was to try to numb his bad memories with alcohol.
When Dad drank, he was very verbal, and Mom and I had to hear his unhappiness. When he wasn't drinking, he was a different person.
Dad did not like Christmas or receiving gifts at Christmas. He'd make remarks when drunk that he didn't want or need Christmas gifts now.
Years passed, and my mom died. Bill and I started to see a significant change in my Dad. For some unknown reason, he began to enjoy Christmas.
He was always excited when we bought him gifts. One year, we bought him a microwave. He lived alone, and we'd hear all about what he was making in the microwave. Another year, we bought him a radio with a tape player, along with some country tapes. I found out he didn't like Willie Nelson, but he did like Tom Jones. Now that was a surprise!
I'm not sure why there was such a change in Dad's outlook at Christmas, but I'm so happy that he was finally able to enjoy Christmas in the last few years of his life.
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Thursday, December 11, 2025

191 ~ Merry Heavenly Christmas

By Kay Heitsch

Well, Todd, it's Christmastime again. It doesn't seem possible that you have been gone for so many years.
I'll admit, Christmas has not been the same since you have been gone. When we all get together, I often look around and wonder what it would be like if you were still here. I can see you laughing and joking. I know Noah, Eli, Gus, Freddy, and Ella would love you.
Every year, I still hang your Christmas stocking that Aunt Kathy made for you. I put your stocking, with your name on it, right in the middle of all of ours.
We don't have the old Christmas tree anymore. However, I did make night lights out of the bubble lights. I've given many away as gifts. I made a little memory tree using some of the ornaments from the old tree.
Keeping with our Christmas tradition, I still make most of the same things I made when you were here. I make the peanut butter chocolate candy. Joe has given this candy a name now. Crack! The Kiss and Snowball cookies are still a hit. Of course, you won't forget the party mix! If you can believe it, I still use the same bowl to make the dip and crackers we enjoy on Christmas Eve.
So much has changed since you've been gone. But I try to keep some of our Christmas traditions going.
Your grave is decorated for Christmas. It's not much, but I hope you know how much you are loved.
Merry Christmas in Heaven, Todd.
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2

Wednesday, December 10, 2025

190 ~ Sing Along

By Kay Heitsch

It was the week before Christmas at the Memory Care Center. Since it was close to Christmas, a sing-along of Christmas songs was planned.
Bob, one of the residents, was in his joy. He was busy handing out the song sheets to everyone.
Before each song, Bob would announce the name of the song. When the people finished singing, he quickly praised everyone for their participation. I smiled to see Bob so actively involved.
The music was on a CD player, and after each song, Bob would say, "Now this is our last song, I've lost my voice." However, when the next song began, he sang out loud and strong.
When the sing-along was finally over, Bob thanked everyone for coming, and then he started to cry. He shared how he missed his brothers and sisters, who I assumed had passed on.
I hugged Bob and reminded him that we all cared for him. He stopped crying and said, "Yes, you all are my family now."
An announcement was made that the activity was over. Bob went around, shook everyone's hand, and thanked them for coming.
You never know what Memory Care people might say, and today was no exception.
In a loud voice, Mary, one of the residents, spoke to the lady sitting next to her, "Well, when I was the Sunday School Superintendent, I at least served refreshments when it was over!"
Remember how I led you on this long journey. Deuteronomy 8:2